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Jul 26 2007

Romance Self-Defense I

Tag: Defense of RomanceKerry Allen @ 1:00 am

Today we begin tackling those negative stereotypes about romance. I will offer one, followed by what I think is a reasonable response. Since the goal is to present a united front, not create an army of rhetoric-spouting puppets, you should feel free to add your own touch. (If, like me, you have smartass and/or aggressive tendencies, just remember to wedge the thoughtful response somewhere between the sarcasm and jabs to the larynx.)

Negative Stereotype #1

Romance is porn for women.

Well-Reasoned Response

“People read romance for a variety of reasons. Some read for pure escapist fantasy. Some read because they find it life- and hope-affirming. The many styles and subgenres of romance offer additional incentive to read, including all the qualities that lure people to mystery and humor and urban fantasy.

A statistically insignificant number read a 300-page book solely for the 5 pages of sex scenes.”

Kerry’s Personal Touch

“If it was porn of any kind, men would be reading it by the millions.”

I’ve given this stereotype all the thought I can, and this is the best I can come up with on my own. Contribute your suggestions to the movement, and together we will construct the Ultimate Defense of Romance!

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